Tell children what is changing—and what is staying the same
Children can respond differently depending on age, temperament and the reason for moving. Give clear information once the plan is reasonably certain, allow questions and avoid promising details you cannot control. Explain the date, the new home, school or childcare arrangements and how they will stay connected to important people.
Toddlers
Use short explanations, picture books, familiar routines and repeated reminders close to the date.
School-age children
Use a calendar, let them pack selected items and discuss school, friends and the new area.
Teenagers
Share practical information early, respect friendships and involve them in room and transport decisions.
Raising Children Network provides guidance about choosing, starting and moving schools. Use school-specific advice when a change of school is part of the move.
Organise school, childcare and care arrangements early
- Confirm final and starting dates, records and uniform or equipment requirements.
- Update emergency contacts, approved pickup people and transport arrangements.
- Keep school bags, devices, medication and important documents outside the moving load.
- Tell relevant teachers or carers about the move where appropriate.
- Plan who will supervise children during packing, cleaning and moving day.
Add these organisations to the Australian change-of-address checklist.
Involve children without making them responsible for the move
Give safe, limited choices: which toys go in the first-night box, the colour of room labels or which books travel in the car. Adults should handle sharp tools, heavy cartons, chemicals, dismantling and decisions about valuable or unsafe items.
- Create a “keep with us” bag. Include a comfort item, snacks, water, spare clothes, toiletries, chargers and required medicine.
- Photograph the old room. This can help children remember it and can guide familiar furniture placement.
- Pack in short sessions. Stop before the task becomes exhausting and keep the sleeping area functional until late.
- Use clear labels. Add the child’s room and a simple content description to each carton.
- Keep one activity available. Books, drawing materials or headphones can help during waiting periods.
For the full household sequence, follow the Melbourne moving-house checklist.
Moving-day safety and supervision
The safest option for young children is often a trusted carer away from the property. When that is not possible, assign one adult whose primary responsibility is supervision—not carrying furniture, directing the truck and answering every logistics question at the same time.
- Keep children away from truck movements, ramps, trolleys and lifting routes.
- Control access to open front doors, balconies, stairs and driveways.
- Store tools, tape cutters, cleaning products and loose hardware out of reach.
- Do not allow children to climb on boxes or furniture waiting to be secured.
- Keep medicine, allergy plans and emergency contacts immediately available.
Pack a family first-night kit
| Category | Useful items |
|---|---|
| Sleep | Bedding, pyjamas, comfort item, night light and favourite bedtime book. |
| Food | Water, simple snacks, breakfast basics and any feeding equipment. |
| Care | Medicine, nappies, wipes, toiletries, spare clothes and first-aid supplies. |
| School | Bag, uniform, lunch items, device, charger and documents needed immediately. |
| Connection | Phone numbers, family calendar and a planned call with important friends or relatives. |
Carry this kit in the family vehicle so it is available even if unloading takes longer than expected.
Restore routines in the first week
Set up sleeping spaces and basic eating, bathing and school routines before perfecting every room. Let children explore the home with supervision, identify safe boundaries and choose one familiar arrangement or decoration. Expect mixed emotions; excitement and sadness can exist together.
- Keep bedtimes and mealtimes as consistent as practical.
- Visit the route to school, childcare, parks or local shops together.
- Make time for old friendships and familiar family activities.
- Watch for ongoing distress and seek appropriate professional support when concerned.
Make the moving plan easier for the whole family
Share both addresses, access, parking, major furniture, box estimate and any time window with the mover. Professional packing support may reduce late-night work for parents, while a clear moving quote request helps define the schedule.

Useful sources and further reading
Frequently asked questions
When should I tell my child we are moving?
Tell them once the plan is reasonably certain, using age-appropriate details and enough time for questions and practical preparation.
Should children be at the house on moving day?
For young children, a trusted carer away from lifting and open doors is often safest. Otherwise assign one adult to direct supervision.
What should children pack in a first-night bag?
Include sleep items, a comfort object, snacks, water, spare clothes, toiletries, medication, school essentials and a familiar activity.
How can children help with packing?
Offer safe limited tasks such as choosing room-label colours, sorting books or selecting first-night toys. Adults should handle heavy, sharp or hazardous work.
How do I help a child settle after moving?
Restore sleep, meal and school routines, set up their room early, explore the new area together and maintain contact with important people.



